Thanksgiving is just around the corner and what
comes to my mind is family and FOOD! Of course what comes to some peoples mind
is SHOPPING. Personally I think that is terrible! Thanksgiving is supposed to
be spent with family and friends in the warmth of a home, not a shopping
center. It is supposed to be a day of thanks not a day of "what kind of
deal can I get this year".
I'm not really sure when this new
"holiday" began as I'm a guy and I was never really into shopping. I
do know that it started out as "Black Friday" which actually started
on Friday. These days it is leaking into
Thursdays festivities. The media starts
talking about all the good deals a month ahead of time. I hear more about the
shopping frenzies than I hear about Thanksgiving itself. Over the last couple years, the deals are
starting earlier and earlier. I've heard that some of the stores are planning
on opening as early as 4pm on Thanksgiving Day. My mom's friends are planning
their Thanksgiving dinner around what time Art Vans is opening. I really have a problem with that!
Back when I was little, all the shopping had to be
done by Wednesday. Gas, groceries, gifts, or anything else we might have needed
because everything was closed. When I
say everything, I mean everything. If my
mom forgot something, it meant Sawyer was running next door to borrow from our
trusty neighbors. It seems like these
days it's hard to find something that is closed! I think this is wrong. As I said
earlier, Thanksgiving is a day to be spent with family enjoying each other's
company, filling our bellies and watching the Lions lose..
A lot of people will disagree with me and say if you
don't like it, then stay home. But
there's another problem. I can't stay home because I have to work! I have to work because all the idiots can't
wait until Friday to open their businesses!
Here's my take on all this. Since "Black
Friday" has basically become a holiday, I think we should be given
"holiday pay" if you work it.
Most of the people who shop on Thanksgiving Day and Black Friday are
rude, grouchy, and mean. I'm sorry lady,
it's not my fault you waited in line for 3 hours in 60 mile an hour winds and
blinding snow just to get in the door only to find out the lady in front of you
got the last T.V. That doesn't give you a right to take it out on me. I'm not here because I want to be, I'm here
because I have to be. I've realized I am fighting a losing battle so I just
have to deal with it.
So, to all you diehard shoppers, remember this and
try to be nice. A smile goes along way!